The normal sized Huntsmans and Wolf spiders don't worry me so much. They are not so poisonous by spider standards and if they just want to sit around and eat insects that is okay. So long as they are on the far wall and not in my bedroom and especially not above my head. Or in my shower and sitting on my shampoo! Like the one in the photo. This is a smaller Huntsman - fortunately for him or I might have reached for the bug spray instead of the Chinese container..
One time though, I went to sit on my balcony and the was a huge Huntsman out on the floor so I jumped and roared and tried to scare it but the fucker shaped up to me! ...So I was like - you win... I'll come back and sit on my balcony later. Lol.
If somebody lost a Bird Eating spider in my house though - I would have to move.
Screw that - those buggers are way too big and hairy. How did you pick them up? I believe when they sell them as pets the fangs are removed - is that true?
I don't know how your girlfriend patted and kissed one of them things. Wow! Brave girl. Yikes!