Although in extreme circumstances, for self-preservation, I did invoke the redback clause. They say if you put a redback spider in a glass jar and tap on the side it will attack you and then die in its own venom. It is quite amazing to watch - the person doesn't understand what is happening and they cling to you anxiously while they shrivel up. I guess for someone like me there was no guilt involved with this solution - after all... They poisoned themselves.
Anyway, finally I learnt that it is okay to forgive - it can be freeing... But for God's sake get the fuck out of the way of the succeeding blows!