Kindness does exist, but kindness and altruism are not synonymous, and I think that's where a lot of confusion lies. Kindness can very much be utilized as a means for self-preservation.
Altruism is defined as 100% selflessness. No matter what human attribute we throw around, none of them demonstrate the existence of altruism; be it kindness, love, empathy, compassion, pity, etc.
My personal take on altruism is that it's an ideal people throw around to overplay their kindness, love, empathy, etc.
I'm not saying all of this to fight with you. I wouldn't waste my time on such meaningless shit. I'm saying this because it's important to understand, and I do think you have the potential to grasp this. Call it my faith in you, lol.
I understand. I just disagree and have already stated why, based on my personal experiences.
If you're arguing a definition by Merriam Webster, yes, you are correct, but we're not arguing the definition, we're arguing the manifestation, the general existence of a purely selfless act. I'm sorry, but that shit cannot be demonstrated, I'm a bit past the point of semantics, as I suspect many here are.
We can look up the definition of Communism, National Socialism, Feminism, etc. and find very different manifestations in the real world than what Merriam Webster promised those terms entailed. I'm not saying the dictionary definition of Altruism has no purpose, but in this particular context it's rather irrelevant.
@JasinElric
I would say that a visual application of a purely selfless act can be demonstrated (to many). The point is that many people don't look past the obvious actions, so in their reality it can exist.
One of my favourite statements of late is;
The less I care, the more easy it is to be polite.
The more polite I am, the more people think I care.
So I can invest an action that on the surface may look selfless but in fact I am sowing seeds. Altruism is a simple tool set with a vast amount of applications as long as the user does not believe the story they are selling. Much like any magic trick.