For me it is an amazing sacred connection.
You must relax and learn how to breathe...
again how to relax and receive energy and connection on a level that allows you to see the fuckin cosmos all the way out into NOTHINGNESS if ya do it rite...
The masturbating deal is more like the easiest way for a DUDE to create a state of gnosis and cast a sigil, say while he is on a break at work or whatever...
using orgasm as a state of gnosis to cast a sigil is NOT SEX MAGICK..
it's Chaos Magick 101..
Hope this helps..
93 skibidoobop.. BOB BOB
Not saying that is the only definition, but that is how it was explained to me. Of course, my teacher could just have been keen on edging... ;)