I want to add my own two cents in here, so here goes - Kerry, in my opinion, one of the best ways to meet fellow Satanists is having the willingness to travel outside of your comfort zone, talk with others, see what their interests are, and look for those who may have a leaning towards an occult themed lifestyle, individualism, personal empowerment. By travelling and meeting new people from different areas of the United States, I have had some of the best experiences I think I could possibly ask for. It's not cheap by any means, nor is it always easy to get schedules in alignment to meet up but gather the courage to go out on a limb and take a flight or two if need be. I know here where I currently reside, I see little to any semblance of like minded individuals, so I basically "had to" go outside of my comfort zone. You might also want to consider renting small venues who give you the room for meetings when you get to the point where you have a significant number of people to gather, hold monthly meetings, publish a newsletter, set up a website, YouTube account, podcast for example. There are so many various ways to reach an audience if you are willing to put in the work.